I don't blame you for getting busy on things. It happens.
The story is still well written but it is just hard to picture being so choked up over ron. I guess that is just me. I never did like him from the begining. I could not see anything really good in canon ron. makes it a little hard to detatch for fanfic.
But your characters are realistic as far as making the emotions come through even if I don't understand why they feel the way they do..

due to my own bias against ron of course.
Your characters are real enough to make me want to shake them and yell "Snap out of it! It was only ron for Merlin's sake!"
But you know me, the anti-red rodent person.
Alright then, try not to work yourself too hard and don't stress out about long times between updates. People need to learn how to be patient anyways right?
PJ